I AM WOMAN I AM STRONG
Yesterday, via e-mail I experienced a written display of disrespect from a man who I've had little interaction with over the past year. And when I responded to his e-mail with "I love how a person who closes his message with the words Praise God can write such a detailed hateful message". He responded with some more disrespectful, rude, unnessary comments and issues concerning MY LIFE that DO NOT CONCERN HIM.
Well with that I just laughed. What else could I do? I would like to beat him like I was his momma, but he is not my child. I will of course try to my best to raise a better man that him.
He claims I insulted his manhood. He called me an extorionist, a panhandler, the Devil, miserable, weak, and that he is far more intelligent than I because he went to a better college. He also said im inconsiderate, I display no class, and I have a "lack of business savvy". Oh yeah he also said I act like my "Prepaid resume business is a fortune 500." Just to mention a few of the insults he threw my way.
Of course I have no reason to defend myself or internalize any of these remarks for I am woman, I am strong and in all honesty pray that the Lord help him with his anger and help him find his own life so that he is not obsessed with mine.
I have two thing to say so we all learn from this lesson.
1) If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all.
2) Men respect women, we birth, we love you and we only expect love in return.
Well with that I just laughed. What else could I do? I would like to beat him like I was his momma, but he is not my child. I will of course try to my best to raise a better man that him.
He claims I insulted his manhood. He called me an extorionist, a panhandler, the Devil, miserable, weak, and that he is far more intelligent than I because he went to a better college. He also said im inconsiderate, I display no class, and I have a "lack of business savvy". Oh yeah he also said I act like my "Prepaid resume business is a fortune 500." Just to mention a few of the insults he threw my way.
Of course I have no reason to defend myself or internalize any of these remarks for I am woman, I am strong and in all honesty pray that the Lord help him with his anger and help him find his own life so that he is not obsessed with mine.
I have two thing to say so we all learn from this lesson.
1) If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all.
2) Men respect women, we birth, we love you and we only expect love in return.

8 Comments:
At February 25, 2005 1:22 PM,
Chicka * Cosmo said…
soemthing silence is our best friend! you did good, it showed that you are strong and mature!
you deserve an e-hug!
At February 25, 2005 3:17 PM,
Chicka * Cosmo said…
LOL I meant "sometimes" I think the spa day left me a little dumb...too good too be true! LOL
you are welcome...
At February 25, 2005 4:30 PM,
Jazz said…
GIMMIE HIS EDRESS SO WE CAN SEND HIM PRO-WOMAN CHAIN LETTERS AND ANNOY THE HECK OUT OF EM.
I HATE THAT TOO.
At February 25, 2005 5:13 PM,
Mo said…
lol. better yet how about i tell you where he'll be tonight. we can have women boycott him and his event. he got some nerve calling me a panhandler, if only you new the background.
At February 25, 2005 6:33 PM,
Abeni said…
You go girl!
At February 27, 2005 10:04 PM,
Hope said…
I remember hearing an actor who played an evil character on the Masterpiece Theater series, “The Jewel the Crown,” saying one viewer walked up to him and said, "If you had a restaurant, I would not eat at it!" Maybe you could tell this fellow the same. That'd show him! Or you could just ignore him.
From what I gather, Mo, you are no panhandler but a model of industry, enterprise, perseverance and initiative in the face of difficult life circumstances. Keep up the good work!
Hope
At February 28, 2005 12:15 PM,
Mo said…
Thank you Hope. You know what i'm working on now? Creating an offical website for my resume services and business cards.
By the way the email wasn't even fueled over my resume business, it was more on a personal note. In fact I had never mentioned my resume business to the man, he knows of it based on a mass email I sent out announcing when I started it up. He just felt the need to attack everything he could about me. But i'm moving on.
At March 2, 2005 6:39 AM,
Shirazi said…
I agree with you. Dont bother about this. May be such attitude does not even merit a mentiion.
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